first hospitalisation
Just getting to into hospital is such a challenge. You can see your son or daughter weight dropping each week, you can see and smell the changes happening to them and you are so scared of the waiting...
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June 2011. Day 3 at home. She is still so happy to be home that meal times are reasonably calm and she has taken on a few new foods. Joy for this week is reaching the milestone of eating yoghurt and...
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Sophie’s first hospitalisation lasted 8 weeks. In hindsight it wasn’t long enough. The hospital has since regretted letting her go to soon. She needed to be more stable in her eating patterns. It...
View Articlesix mths between hospital stays
By middle of October 2010 she was ready to be discharged. Being ready is a debatable term and freely open to one’s personal view of the situation. We had two promises from the hospital – 1. she would...
View Articleanorexia and main-stream acceptance
What a depressing time spent researching what teens view on the internet. I admit, I am very naive. I design websites, do a lot of internet related activities but essentially stay within what I find...
View Articleone month out of hospital
I listen to Sophie run up the stairs yet again. Some days she manages this several times. Other days she is in constant motion, unable to sit still – a gentle burn to the calories she intakes. Yes we...
View Articlenever forget
Reading through other parents stories, pieces of your own story flow back to your conscience level. I had shelved the memories of the meltdown that meal times used to create. You would talk, reason,...
View Articlewhere’s my wand
“NOT MY DAUGHTER, YOU BITCH”. Like a million others, that moment in the Harry Potter movie when Mrs Weasley told off Bellatrix for trying to kill Ginny, is pure gold. And then she blew Bellatrix into a...
View Articlewatching the eating disorder play the field
The psychiatrist visit was as tough as I predicted. Our counsellor had already given her a heads up so she was very ready for us. I listened to Sophie again go on and on about the mum and dad...
View Articlelimping to the end of another week
Sure was a fallout from the sleep over, but I thought it may have been medical. Silly me. Monday was GP day – weigh day. Haven’t had a weigh for over a month. Sophie was tired still from weekend and a...
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